Im proud to call myself a man... As a man we shold have some egos in ourself... that differentiate men n women... But there are women tht dont want understand man's ego.. They just want men to understand them but they refuse to do the same to men.. it is totally unfair. How can we create harmony n long lasting relationship without having similarities between the couples?? My advices, please women, dont u ever wish us wll be like you.. Dont u ever dare our ego. Men like women who treat them like a men.. Plus women nowadays wrongly interpret the meaning of justice(keadilan) and equity(kesaksamaan).. These are 2 different things... justice can be define as to attain rights meanwhile equity is impartiality.... Everythng tht men wants they also want... no babe, u r born to be a women so behave like one...
Asraf, you're so bias. And you are stereotyping people. Not all women are like that and not all men are angel. Well, I'm not a feminist but in this case I think just like men, us women like to treated like we have ego and dignity too.
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hahah... keadilan n kesaksamaan tu benda yg berbeza kak oit... keadilan untuk mendapatkan hak-kah korang..kalu itu hak korang, korang mmg patot dpt.. tp untuk mendapatkan kesaksamaan seperti mana lelaki mmg xboleh... bukan bias.. contoh kesaksamaan, lelaki makan 2 pinggan nasi, pompuan xboleh ikut benda yg sama lol sbb 1, perut dia x muat....2, xnmpk kelembutan sbg seorg pompuan yg rasulluah maksudkan...tp ramai pompuan gedik nk gak mkn 2 pinggan nk ikot cara lelaki...dr segi sains pula, lelaki mmg hadam cepat sbb aktif.... pompuan jgn nk mengada ikot cr lelaki.... laki panjat pokok dia pompuan pon nk pjt pokok... tlg la jaga maruah keperempuanan tu... laki maen bola sepak, dia nk maen bola sepak gak.... itu kn da menyerupai lelaki tu... bile da menyerupai lelaki akn menmbulkan fitnah seterusnya agama pon x setuju.. jd tolong faham maksud keadilan n kekaksamaan...
ReplyDeleteamboi..bukan main garang..tp aku rasa mcm x fair nak tgk bab ni dr sudut sapa mkn bnyak n main bola ja..
ReplyDeletejgnla stereotype.. xsemua pompuan yg kasar tu nak jd lelaki..mybe diaorg mmg dilahirkan mcm tu.. org nak fitnah tu biasala..manusia, takan penah diam n takan penah puas hati..
im trying to be positive here. kalo sorang pmpn tu dia nak sama dgn lelaki cnthnya dlm plajaran..bukan ka itu bagus? dia dpt push diri dia n ada motivation to excel more than guys..
and most girls perform better than guys in studies but when they went for interview they are not selected girls are not reliable compared to guys therefore guys with a lower cgpa are chosen. is this fair? the girl studied like hell when she was in uni to get a good result but yet a guys got selected due to bias employer. IS THIS FAIR? sometimes we girls just want to feel appreciated for what we are capable of :)
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owh..excuse me nadia.. those were exmples lol...banyak sudut lg la. aku sengaja bg contoh yg mudah paham jer... beb, kalu tgk dr sudut belajar, perempuan pun ada hak beb dlm islam.. so we must be fair to them..but d probs is, im not talking bout fairness... im talking bout kesaksamaan la... keadilan n kesaksamaan tu benda yg laen k...KESAKSAMAAN....adil n saksama... another example, u ada 2 anak.... anak pertama tingkatan 5, anak kedua darjah6... anak kedua awk, duet belanja sekolah awk bg 50sen sehari... anak ak yg tingkatan 5 tu awk bg 50sen sehari juga ker??? mestila takkan.. anak yg form 5 tu da besar so makan lg bnyak, ada lg keperluan sekolah yg laen...so mesti la awak bg lebih duet belanja compared to standard 6....it depends on the capability n strength and age... itu kesaksamaan... perempuan xboleh jd mcm lelaki dr beberapa perkara n lelaki pon sebaliknyer... mmg la mulut org takkan diam, tp terbaik kita cuba elak fitnah..Nabi suruh kita elak fitnah.. lelaki kuat angkat barang berat, yg perempuan terhegeh2 nk ikot jd kuat apsal.. itu da x betol.. lelaki balek lewat malam dgn kawan, kalu perempuan buat mcm tu akn tmbul fitnah mcm2... dun compare men n women.. we have our own style of living but our style of living should follow islam.. not mat saleh2...
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